I had my baby shower saturday but only 12 out of the 40 showed..I am a little sad. Advice?

How rude of your family. Once the baby is here they will change their tune (I've seen it MANY many times w/ all types of different people) & hopefully they will be ashamed of their treatment of you when you were pregnant. I mean you are 22 years old & married. You do not deserve that. At my wedding my mother in law told everybody she was not ready to be a grandmother & we better not be having babies any time soon. Now she stops by all the time annoying me trying to see my son. My friend was 18 & unmarried when she got pregnant. Her parents were heartbroken & she was so depressed. Now she is 21 & married & totally in love w/ her son as are her parents.